The entire country is experiencing rough times and it may not get better anytime soon. This is a reflection of what is also occurring down at the personal level with individuals, families, households and businesses. As we feel ourselves being squeezed between the proverbial rock and hard place, giving in to our instincts for flight or fight is misguided; there is no place to hide and nobody to terminate. The up side to all of this is that things will be much better than ever before once we choose the correct course of action.
For an increasingly large number of us who rely on credit to buy products and services we can not conveniently pay for outright, such as necessary medical or dental services, car or home repairs, or that $600 pair of Louis Vuitton, Chanel, or Ferragamo shoes, we get into a credit bind when our overhead exceeds our income. If the situation gets out of hand and requires desperate measures, such as filing bankruptcy or selling your home, this can be traumatic, both physically and emotionally.
As the Greek philosopher Epictetus taught, "It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters." When you read of the Holocaust, those who survived never gave up hope. The connection between stress and anxiety, depression, and physical disease is the reason to recognize and address the impact of debt on your wellbeing. In order to prevent headaches, insomnia, gastric ulcers, and a host of other disorders, here are a few tips to minimize the stress of debt.
• Have a game plan.
Develop a strategy for handling your debt, either by setting up a payment program, consulting with a financial advisor, or researching advice online.
• Establish a budget.
Know where every penny is going and cut the waste. Take advantage of grocery store coupons; keep driving the old car instead of buying a new one; shop for
discount auto insurance and other bargains online.
• Enlist the help and advice of friends, coworkers and family.
By networking and establishing communication with others who may have been in your situation, you can gain understanding and learn ways to cope.
• Maximize your health.
Get plenty of sleep. Drink adequate water. Take multivitamins. Exercise. Practice deep relaxation.
• Think positively.
All of us run automatic negative thoughts through our minds over and over that overflow into our beliefs and actions. You can replace those thoughts with ones that stimulate problem solving centers in the brain and evoke positive emotions.
We need to stay healthy and emotionally in control to be effective and overcome our difficulties. Debt is no different than other social problems that cause us to adapt. If you plan to survive traffic gridlock, water and air pollution, and violence in the street, you need preserve your health and program positive thoughts to overcome these problems. Now, return to the list of tips to reduce stress and put at least one of them into motion.
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That was good!!! The one good thing that has come from this cold---I haven't had a glass of merlot since Friday night.. That in itself is a huge reduction. And much needed. I have let several bad habits in over the course of the last few months.. It's just sad that I had to get sick to get rid of some of them. But Hey, whatever works.. Now lets just pray that I don't become addicted to the cold meds!!! Just kidding...
and don't forget Leigh Ann, the best way to get out of debt is to cut costs. Recurring expenses are evil,reduce the phone bill, reduce the tv bill, reduce insurance costs, cut the paper, cut your energy uses. Steps like this can cut hundreds a month, thousands a year and tens of thousands in a decade.
ps, I added your blog to my blog links, the lower set!
Great information. Thanks for sharing.
Good advice. My favorite way to start the journey out of debt is the debt snowball. It sure does feel great when you see your debt decreasing!
Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) a particular way of paying attention: with mindful intention, in the moment, without judgment. Although MBSR embraces the acceptance of things as they are without striving, research has shown that, with regular practice, it has the potential to lower stress, anxiety, and depression. It can promote relaxation, improve concentration, raise self-awareness, and enhance the immune system. http://www.xanax-effects.com/
This post has really useful tips to stay in control. Reason for stress may be anything but every problem will have a solution. The solution lies in defeating the reasons causing stress. All who are suffering from stress by any reason should know how to manage stress.
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